A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Notice

Message: Only variable references should be returned by reference

Filename: core/Common.php

Line Number: 257

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /homepages/21/d109807860/htdocs/jvh/strengths/system/core/Exceptions.php:185)

Filename: libraries/Session.php

Line Number: 688

Jesse Van Hiller | Strengths

Strengths

Visualize your strengths

Command®

People especially talented in the Command theme have presence. They can take control of a situation and make decisions.

Score Distribution

Shows scores for this strength across all staff.

Users with Command strength

In their TOP FIVE strengths:

Theme Description

Command leads you to take charge. Unlike some people, you feel no discomfort with imposing your views on others. On the contrary, once your opinion is formed, you need to share it with others. Once your goal is set, you feel restless until you have aligned others with you. You are not frightened by confrontation; rather, you know that confrontation is the first step toward resolution. Whereas others may avoid facing up to life's unpleasantness, you feel compelled to present the facts or the truth, no matter how unpleasant it may be. You need things to be clear between people and challenge them to be clear-eyed and honest. You push them to take risks. You may even intimidate them. And while some may resent this, labeling you opinionated, they often willingly hand you the reins. People are drawn toward those who take a stance and ask them to move in a certain direction. Therefore, people will be drawn to you. You have presence. You have Command.

Action Items

  • Seek roles in which you will be asked to persuade others. Consider whether selling would be a good career for you.
  • You will always be ready to confront. Practice the words, the tone, and the techniques that will turn your ability to confront into real persuasiveness.
  • In your relationships, seize opportunities to speak plainly and directly about sensitive subjects. Your unwillingness to hide from the truth can become a source of strength and constancy for your colleagues and friends. Strive to become known as a candid person.
  • Help your colleagues and friends make commitments. You can provide the spark that will inspire them to act.
  • Find a cause you believe in and support it. You might discover yourself at your best when defending a cause in the face of resistance.
  • Ask people for their opinions. Sometimes your candor will prove intimidating, causing others to tread very lightly for fear of your reaction. Watch for this. If necessary, explain that you are candid simply because it feels so uncomfortable to keep things bottled up, not because you want to frighten other people into silence.
  • Partner with someone with a strong Woo or Empathy theme. Some obstacles do not need to be confronted; they can be circumvented. This person can help you to circumvent obstacles through relationships.

How to Manage a Person Especially Talented in the Command Theme

  • When you need to jar a project loose and get things moving again or when people need to be persuaded, ask this person to take charge.
  • Always ask him for evaluations of what is happening in your organization. He is most likely to give you a straight answer. In the same vein, look to him to raise ideas different from your own. He isn't likely to be a head nodder.
  • As much as you can, give him the room to lead and make decisions. He will not like to be supervised closely.
  • If he starts empire building, upsetting colleagues, veering from focus, or ignoring his commitments, meet him head-on. Confront him directly with specific examples. Take firm action and, if necessary, require immediate restitution. Then arrange for him to be productive as soon as possible. He will get over his mistake quickly, and so should you.
  • Never threaten him unless you are 100% ready to follow through.
  • This person may intimidate others with his up-front, assertive style. You may need to weigh whether or not the contribution of this person who makes things happen justifies the occasional ruffled feather. Rather than pushing him to learn how to be empathic and polite, your time may be better spent helping his colleagues understand that his assertiveness is part of what makes him effective ó as long as he remains assertive rather than aggressive or offensive.